What The Hobbit Taught Me.
The Hobbit is messy, brutal, and full of wisdom. Not the kind that makes you feel warm and fuzzy. The kind that calls you out and tells you to do better.
9/18/20254 min read
Growing up, some books don’t just entertain you, they tattoo themselves onto your soul. The Hobbit has always been one of those for me. When I was younger, it was about dragons, treasure, and adventure. But as I’ve grown older, I see the layers I missed: accountability, arrogance, honesty, valor, unity, darkness, deceit, leadership, and even death. It isn’t just a children’s story it’s a mirror of what it means to be human.
Let’s start with Bard the Bowman.
He lives in Lake-town an impoverished place with starving people, ruled by a corrupt and greedy lord. Bard isn’t looking for glory. He just wants to feed his kids and live in peace. He’s ordinary, honest, and unpolished. And that’s exactly what makes him great.
Bard doesn’t shy away from the injustices he sees. He’s respected because he speaks up when others stay quiet. He’s the voice for those who have none. And when the moment comes, when the dragon bears down on his people his courage and determination prove him to be a true leader.
Here’s the twist: Bard never thought he was enough. He wrestled with the same doubts we all do “I’m not worthy, I’m not strong enough, who am I to make a difference?” But courage isn’t about never being afraid. It’s about acting anyway. Bard faced his fear, aimed his shot, and changed everything.
The Dwarves: Outcasts, Glory, and the Weight of Leadership
The dwarves travel long and far to reclaim what once belonged to them their home, their dignity, their history. They’re outcasts, carrying the ache of displacement and the hunger for belonging. At the heart of them is Thorin Oakenshield the chosen heir, the leader who was meant to restore his people. But power is a dangerous thing. As he draws closer to the mountain and its treasure, Thorin becomes consumed by greed, glory, and the lure of control. He swore he would be different that he would unite the kingdoms and rise above the corruption that once destroyed his family. Yet in the shadow of the gold, he loses himself.
It takes his friends the ones who see his soul beneath the crown to remind him of who he truly is. Even as war breaks out between elves, humans, and the darkness pressing in, Thorin must fight a battle no one else can fight for him: the inner war between pride and purpose and he does. Broken and humbled, he remembers why he began this journey. It was never about gold or glory. It was about building a future where his people and all people could stand together.
Thorin’s redemption is hard-won. He fights to the death, not for himself, but alongside his friends, for something greater than any throne. His story is a brutal, beautiful reminder: Leadership isn’t about being flawless. It’s about owning your shadows, returning to your truth, and leading with integrity when it matters most.
Who we are and what we stand for may feel small in a world this wide and chaotic but when we live it out with honesty, we create ripples. And those ripples matter.
Bilbo: The Power of Staying True.
Bilbo Baggins is, in many ways, the most authentic soul in the entire story. He begins as the reluctant adventurer, loudly insisting he doesn’t like adventures, while secretly carrying a restless spark for something more. That tension, that honesty about wanting comfort and yet yearning for change, makes him deeply human. And yet, when darkness tempts him, when the Ring, whispers its promise of power, Bilbo does something extraordinary, he refuses to be moved. Where others are undone by greed or crushed by fear, Bilbo’s strength lies in his refusal to abandon his true self. He may not be the strongest warrior or the loudest leader but his integrity in unshakable.
Pushed out of his cozy, no adventure zone, Bilbo doesn’t transform into someone else, he becomes more of who he already was. His courage grows, but so does his kindness, his essence sharpens, not softens. He keeps his word. He fights for what is noble and true. He helps those in need, even when no one expects it of him, and even stands up to the Thorin when is most needed.
Bilbo reminds us that when we live from our truth, when we believe in a better world and refuse to abandon our values, we become unstoppable. Not because the world agrees, but because the world cannot take away what is real.
The elves: beauty, arrogance and the courage to defy.
the elves are oh so fascinating and frustrating. They are everything you would expect from an inmortal race: eloquent, elegant, impossibly beautiful. they move with grace, speak with wisdom, and fight with precision. They are also arrogant as hell. Self serving, aloof, and convinced the world revolves around their perfect little kingdom. They embody the danger of power without humility. The ability to see everything, yet miss the bigger picture. But not all of them.
Tauriel and Legolas break from the mold. Where others cling to self-preservation, they risk their lives to protect the vulnerable. Where their king builds walls, they build bridges. They defy their leader, not out of rebellion for rebellion’s sake, but because they recognize a deeper truth: they are not the center of the world. They are part of it. And with that belonging comes responsability. Their courage shows us that loyalty to a system, a king, or a tradition means nothing if it blinds us to justice. True strenght lies in seeing beyond ourselves, in standing for those who can’t stand alone.
The elves remind us that beauty and wisdom without empathy curdle into arrogance but when humility enteres the picture, when vision expands beyong self interest, even the most gilded of beings can become a force for good.
I once heard someone say that as we grow older, we should read more fairytales, because within them lies the truth of our humanity. The kind that remind us courage doesn’t always look heroic, leaders screw up, and sometimes the smallest person in the room is the one who saves the day.
Bard’s ordinary bravery, Thorin’s war with his own greed, Bilbo’s refusal to sell out, and even the elves learning they are not the center of the universe, these aren’t pretty metaphors. They are gut checks.
Stories like The Hobbit are here to call us out, to remind us what’s worth fighting for. The real danger isn’t dragons. It’s the systems, creeds, and greed that try to turn us into something we are not. So the real question is : are we paying attention? or are we letting the lessons pass us by whole we scroll, nod, and go back to business as usual?

